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Under the terms of her dad Jamie's strict conservatorship over her estate - which includes monitoring who she hangs out with and, according to one confidant, her cellphone usage - Spears can only call Ghalib on the sly. When she's unable to use Trawick's cell, "she'll go to dance rehearsal and pick up someone else's phone," says the confidant. How often does she sneak the calls? "Sometimes every month, sometimes twice a month. tiffany accessories clearance talked as recently as a month ago."

For Spears, such stolen moments are a chance to vent. "She says she's not living the life she wants," says the confidant. "She talks about her dad's conservatorship. She'll say, 'This is worse than being in prison. At least in prison, you know when your sentence is up.'" Seconds the Spears insider, "She's miserable under her parents' control," and even claims that, "as crazy as it sounds, she really wants to get back together with Adnan. She likes Jason more as a friend."

But perhaps Spears has suffered memory loss. After all, this is the tiffany jewellery who peddled her private voice mails and intimate details of their relationship to Entertainment Tonight in 2008. "I think she was hoping she was pregnant with my child," he said at the time. And since then, he hasn't exactly cleaned up his act: He was jailed for 45 days last fall and is currently attending anger management classes after running over an L.A. process server who was trying to hand over the Spears family's restraining order against him.Life With Jason

Still, another friend of the singer insists the chances of a Ghalib-Spears reunion are remote. Aside from the obvious legal barrier, "Britney and Jason are together all the time. It's a serious relationship. They stay in, watch movies, swim in the tiffany, cook dinner and play with the kids" - sons Sean, 4, and Jayden, 3. (Dad is her ex-husband, Kevin Federline.) Another roadblock? "Her best friend Brett [Miller, her assistant] hates Adnan and would never allow it!" the pal adds.